A good talk

There is many things that I like about the parents being here but the best thing is the talks that I have with the Dad. We were talking tonight and he told me why he picked me to be their surrogate. He had 5 women to choose from and he read the Q&A from each. He said that my answers touched his heart because he thought I wanted to be a surrogate for the right reasons. He also said that when he saw our family picture my husband scared him a little....lol...because of his earrings and skull shirts. We had a great laugh because the Mom tells the Dad that he should be more like my husband. She thinks he is a great father and husband. It is nice that she sees how great my husband is but her husband is pretty great too.
We talked over the plans for their trip back to China. It is very sad for both of us to talk about them leaving. He tells me being here he almost forgets about his business life in China when he is here. The parents both like the slower life here in America. I hope that they one day have a house here and can stay as long as they want. Of course we love to visit them in China but it is very hard for the Dad to not think about work and enjoy our company when he is in China.
I wish I could have deep conversations with the Mom but I need to learn more chinese before that can happen. Right now we are able to tell each other what we need but we have to go through the Dad if we want to talk about anything more than that. It is ok though we still love each other and one day we will be able to have conversation.